Living in another country also reminded us that people measure success and happiness in different ways. A lot of Spaniards live with their families into their late twenties, which is almost taboo in the U.S. We also met young travelers with our same idea of traveling before being tied down by jobs, relationships, etc.-which helped us validate our decision and not feel so alone about going against the grain.
The "College to Real World" transition isn't talked about
After 20+ years of schooling, getting that diploma doesn't just mean graduating, but a complete shift in lifestyle. Some choose grad/med school, a gap year (woot woot!), or starting that first job. But no one talks about the transition: like how intense more school is, how tedious job searching becomes or the struggles of adapting to a 9-5 work life. Not to mention that many of us are paying bills for the first time, keeping a budget and probably living in a new city.
Honestly, we have no idea why this life change isn't the most talked about...so make the change yourself! Whenever I network, I'll ask for just general life advice, which always leads to an interesting conversation. Some of my mentors have told me to be careful when choosing my first job-because it's easy to get stuck in an industry when you're comfortable-while another talked about how to look at my first salary (what you need to live vs. what you want, i.e. a financial goal).
Most people are still figuring it out
It's easy for us to compare ourselves to others and think, Why does my life not look like theirs? Why don't I have my shit together? But if you really look past social media and take the time to talk with the post-college crowd, no one has it together. Many people I know are living at home and planning out their next move, some are already changing jobs and others are taking time to be an Au Pair or join the Peace Corps. Own where you are in life and be honest about it!
Life after college is its own animal-and not always the most fun to deal with. Like with any life change, you've just got to lean on your friends and family, roll with the punches and really focus on what makes you happy.
**Looking for a new adventure after college? Click HERE to read about how we chose our gap semester program!**
When you think of your friend studying abroad, what comes to mind? Most likely it's the gorgeous landscape photos featured on her Instagram story or her crazy stories of partying till dawn. While being abroad definitely includes seeing beautiful places, gorging on delicious food and having total freedom, it's so much more.
Nowadays employers are looking for unique candidates, so put those travel stories to use! Here are four skills from studying abroad that can make you standout in an interview and land that dream job:
1. Having superior people skills
Let's face it, everyone likes comfort. It's tough to approach new people when you're at your favorite pub surrounded by friends. Making new connections can be awkward, nerve wracking and sometimes embarrassing. But all travelers have something in common....traveling! When you're exploring tourist hotspots, it's natural that you'll strike up conversations with people from all over the world. Travelers are usually more open to hearing your stories and you'll be excited to hear about their adventures too.
Soon, YOU will be the one confident enough to spontaneously start conversations. While not all of the people we met were wonderful conversationalists, we learned how to overcome awkwardness, find commonalities and just enjoy someone else's company. These moments with other travelers are so fleeting, that it's a great opportunity to practice connecting with someone quickly and building your confidence around new people.
How to use this skill:
Interviews can be intimidating. Trying to give off a great first impression to a stranger can make even the most confident person insecure. But your potential new boss is just like that guy you met on the train to Budapest: a regular person. This is your moment to put those international people skills to use and hone into the "traveler" version of yourself-relaxed, personable and self-assured.
2. Solving real world problems
A typical interview question is, "how do you handle challenges or overcome obstacles?" Candidates can easily drum up a story from college on how his/her marketing group had to work with a tough client to pass a class. Guess what? Everyone has done that. Show your interviewers a little flare and personality by telling them about that time you lost your luggage in Switzerland and only survived off of 50 euro for the weekend.
How to use this skill:
Showing how you navigated a mishap in a foreign country speaks volumes about your character and how you would handle stressful situations. Another big plus is that it happened in the real world. Not in a classroom setting, for a grade or as part of an internship. It's a unique way to show off your levelheadedness and problem solving skills on the spot, while also giving them a taste of who you are as a person, not a student.
3. Experiencing new cultures
It's no secret that employers are looking to hire people who are inclusive and can bring diverse ideas to the table; no one wants to run a company with only like-minded people. Going abroad says to someone that you're looking to absorb, learn and adapt to a new culture: the perfect picture of inclusivity and diversity.
How to use this skill:
Having a global perspective can relate to anything: how you react to conflicts within your team, being open-minded to the ideas of others, working to understand someone else's perspective, etc. Being part of a different culture challenges your customs and how you see yourself outside of your comfort bubble. Employers will eat up your excitement to learn and thrive in a new situation.
4. Using a foreign language
With how fast tech is advancing, communication around the world is easier-which means it's likely that you'll be interacting (and possibly competing) with foreigners in your job. How impressed would your boss be if you were the link to making a business relationship happen because of your language background?
How to use this skill:
Speaking another language is just another great tool to show off your uniqueness. Employers will be impressed with your commitment to sticking with a foreign language, the value you find in connecting globally and the extra steps you're willing to make to form international relationships.
Studying abroad isn't just about seeing the world. It's what you can take away from your experience to better yourself and standout in the workplace. Happy job hunting!
Many high school and college grads dream about celebrating that special day with a rite of passage backpacking trip through Europe. I mean that's what you see on TV shows (I'm talking about Gilmore Girls). It's an exciting dream to be young and carefree with a backpack. Sorry to spoil that dream, but backpacking isn't as glamorous as what you see on Instagram. Our backpacking trip through the U.K. taught us some valuable lessons on how not to break our backs or our spirits.
Use these tips to find your perfect bag:
How to get a permit
If you’re a member of AAA, that is your easiest and cheapest route to getting an international driver’s license. I went to the nearest AAA office, filled out a form, showed my driver’s license, gave them two copies of a passport sized photo and paid $20. I walked out about 15 minutes later with a driving permit valid in about 150 countries worldwide.
If you don't have AAA, my suggestion would be to head to your local DMV and ask how you can apply for an international driver's license in your state.
Airbnb-the next best thing next to Uber…or so people think. After using Airbnb in the U.S. and Europe, it’s safe to say we’ve seen both the good and ugly of staying in someone’s home. So here’s the nitty gritty on how to find the perfect property, the pros and cons and how our own Airbnb experiences went down.
How to use Airbnb:
I’ve got to hand it to the company, its website and app are super easy to use. Aside from the usual filters, you can see and compare where all matched properties are on a map. This is great because you’ll know exactly how far it is from the city center. After booking, you’ll get a message from the host with instructions on what to do when you arrive.
Insider’s Tip: If you pick a “shared room,” it’s likely that other couples will be at the property too. A new trend is that hosts are renting out several rooms at a time, like an actual B & B, so get ready to fight for the bathroom!
1. It’s an authentic experience-You actually get to “live like a local.” Usually your hosts have great tips on how to use transportation, where to eat and the top attractions to see. Especially when you’re in a new city, it’s nice to have a contact for all of your questions. Plus, not staying in a stuffy hotel can definitely make your experience; being surrounded by the culture pushes you to embrace it more.
2. The price-Let’s be serious, this is the real reason why we’ll pick an Airbnb over better accommodations. Just like with an Uber, the more people, the cheaper it’ll be. It’s an awesome deal for bigger parties, just be prepared to pay a deposit if you’re booking with a group.
3. Less stress-If your host is a good communicator, everything is pretty simple. Since you’re working with him/her one on one, it’s easy to ask questions, switch check-in times, etc. Another bonus is you get the “homey” feel. You don’t have to put on your professional persona and deal with hotel staff or worry about being too noisy; the vibe is much more relaxed.
Thanks to Airbnb we were 15 minutes from Oktoberfest & saw amazing sunsets in Croatia
1. It’s unpredictable-Even though you’ve done your research, you never know what you’ll get. Most pictures of the property are reliable, but it’s tough to trust a host’s profile 100%. You don’t know what your host will be like, what amenities you’ll be offered or if the location is accurate.
Insider’s Tip: Pick a property with a lot of reviews and read them! Previous renters will be honest about their experience and give you an idea of what you’ll walk into. Also, always keep an open mind and don’t set your expectations too high. Remember, this is NOT a hotel, so the amenities (like getting a towel) will be different for each stay.
2. All hosts are different-With hotels, the procedure is the same…well throw all of that out the window! Each Airbnb host is different. Some will be cool with allowing you to use the kitchen, others have extremely strict rules. You just have to go with the flow and remember that each host has a unique system for his/her home.
Insider’s Tip: Try to cover basic information with your host right off the bat when you meet them like: how to come in/leave the house, WIFI password, if amenities are provided and what the check-out process is like. Sometimes you won’t even see the host and will be given codes to get into your Airbnb, so be prepared for anything.
3. Be alert to scams/misinformation-We’ve had a few experiences where hosts will ask us to wire transfer money offsite or the Airbnb maps didn’t accurately pinpoint an address. Since Airbnb is more of a liaison between hosts and renters, always keep an eye out for anything unusual going on.
Insider’s Tip: If you’re nervous about this, picking a Super Host is always a good idea since they’re recognized for being great with guests. Just use your common sense-if it seems sketchy, report it. Airbnb headquarters is hard to get ahold of and honestly they’re not helpful, so if there are problems, you’ll have to take matters into your own hands.
Traveling alone = more selfies :)
1. Traveling on your own is awkward at first.
The honest truth is that being on your own all day, every day after spending the Fall with a constant companion, just feels odd. I'm used to having someone to talk with, or at least sit in comfortable silence with. Someone who is a built-in buddy, a shield from awkward social situations. Now, I was suddenly on my own. It's new, so it's uncomfortable. The good news? It gets easier! The first few days might feel off, but pretty soon you'll be forced to embrace the potential of an awkward social encounter and just go for it. Try to make new friends in your hostel and chat with your roommates. You may have a new system of people to spend the evenings chatting with and get to hear stories from people all over the world in all different stages of life.
2. Embrace the total freedom.
A definite perk to traveling solo is having total and complete freedom. Ice cream for dinner? Absolutely. Lazy day at the beach? Why not? Buying a last minute ticket to watch your favorite tennis player? Uh, definitely! Somehow the days feel longer now with all the options in the world for what I can do. I don't have to take someone else's interests into account and can completely focus on myself.
3. Getting over your own thoughts and doubts is a challenge.
Being alone all day means having a lot of time to think about anything and everything. I noticed that in my first few days traveling alone, I often felt self conscious. When I walked into a restaurant and asked for a table for one or sat by myself in a park, I wondered if everyone thought I was sad because I was alone. It took me a few days to realize how ridiculous this thought process was. I'm 23 and traveling through two new countries by myself - that's pretty cool...definitely not sad. Once I got over my own nervousness and awkwardness, I embraced the time to myself and actually enjoy it now.
When researching, planning and actually travelling to a new city, technology is a huge influencer in what deals we find, where we go and whether we get lost (yay for no sense of direction!). Since we're travelling without data, apps are our new travel must haves. See what made our list of favorites below:
Transportation & Navigation:
SkyScanner - We've used this app to find the best deals on flights all over Europe this semester. It's our first go-to when planning a trip because it shows you a variety of options across all airline companies. You can set your filters based on how much money you want to spend, how long you want to fly, etc. This is how we found cheap airlines like Wizz Air and Flybe. Check out SkyScanner for yourself here.
GoEuro - This is an awesome app for finding cheap bus & train options. Like Skyscanner, it does a cross search to offer you the best ways to get from place to place via plane, train and bus. This is a definite time saver because you can compare all transportation options in one place. Try GoEuro when planning your next trip.
Maps.Me - Navigating a city without data just got easier. While knowing how to read a paper map is a good skill, sometimes you just want an arrow to tell you where you are and a dotted line to show you where to go. With Maps.Me, download a new city map before leaving a wifi zone and then you're set to explore without worrying about data charges. We hadn't heard about this app until getting to Spain, but it's totally changed the way we travel.
TripAdvisor-This app is a great tool to find different attractions, especially if you're looking for something specific. Its "Things To Do" category is broken into subcategories: Top Things to do, Tickets and Tours, Special Offers, Historic Sites and more. It's also a trusted site when looking at reviews, plus a great platform to voice your own thoughts on the things you see and do.
Pinterest-One of our favorite ways to do some quick research before a trip is to check out city guides on Pinterest. Who better to trust than travelers who've been to the city themselves? You can find all sorts of guides like: 48 hour guides, free things to do, best city sites, etc. It's great because you can read pieces by locals and budget travelers and get a good sense of what's worth seeing before you go. We build our own "digital itineraries" by creating a board for each city and then saving our favorite guides there. This app has given us the space to research and plan our activities in one space.
Congrats! You've just decided to join the club of adventurers/thrill-seekers/travelers (also known as unemployed college grads) who are crazy-or stupid-enough to hold off on a job and spend the little money they have exploring foreign places. How financially irresponsible and potentially dangerous! All jokes aside, this is BY FAR the best way to start off adulting. You've spent the past 20+ years following a very set path: school-college-graduation-job-etc.; which is all fine and dandy, but what if it's not for you?
For us, study abroad was life changing...like it actually changed our life plans. Caroline ended up switching majors, and I knew the moment I got back from Spain that I couldn't start my career without going back. From the end of our junior year until graduation, we plotted and planned our great European return. And now here we are. While our friends are drowning in hours of law homework, we're touring the walls of Dubrovnik. While they're venting about tough med school assignments, we're downing Prosecco in Italy. Most people tell us, "Wow, I'm so jealous. Hopefully I can travel too." YOU CAN! This is absolutely the best time to take a gap year/semester because there's this wonderful window where nothing is tying you down. But don't let social media fool you, it took a lot of research, planning, and summer slaving to make it all happen, but was 1000% worth it.
Still interested? Check out below to see how we made it back across the pond:
1. Go for it
Since this is the path less traveled for most college grads, you'll be hit with a lot of questions like: How will you afford it? Aren't you scared to go off on your own? Is it smart to put your career on hold? While you might not have the answers to these questions, be confident in your choice. If you feel excited to explore the world, then go for it! It's natural that you might second guess yourself when people seem against you-but they're just curious (because you're about to go off and do something cooler than sit in a stuffy office). Honestly, taking time off to volunteer, teach or do research in a foreign place will only boost your resume. Plus you'll be more ready than ever to buckle down in the job world once you've taken time for yourself.
2. Know what you want
Making a pro/con list like Rory Gilmore is the best way to start your program search. What's great (and also overwhelming) is the variety of options you have. Here are some questions to think on:
Teaching & host family fun
Caroline and I were pretty dead set on what we wanted, which made our program hunt a little easier. Here's roughly what our list looked like:
Fun memories in England and Croatia (non-Schengen countries)
When we first got accepted to teach abroad, we were so excited to get back to Europe that we immediately booked our plane tickets. We had it all planned out - a month of traveling before making our way to Spain. Visa? No problem. We're volunteering, so we'll just go to the Spanish consulate and apply. Well, we got denied because our program was less than 90 days, which technically means we don't need a visa. All our plans went straight out the window. How do we make the timing work? Can we still travel?
After a small panic attack in Millenium Park, we started doing our research about how to get around the problem of not having a visa. Frustratingly, there wasn't much information about how to do it. Even more frustrating, everything we did find about staying more than 90 days in the Schengen Zone said it was tricky. Honestly, that's pretty accurate. I definitely would not recommend overstaying, but there are ways to make the timing work.
What is the Schengen Zone?
Before I go any further, let's talk about what the Schengen Zone is because I think that can be the most confusing thing for people. There's no set rhyme or reason for what countries are part of it or which aren't. The Schengen Zone is made up of 26 European countries: Austria, Belgium, Czech Republic, Denmark, Estonia, Finland, France, Germany, Greece, Hungary, Iceland, Italy, Latvia, Lichtenstein, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Malta, Norway, Netherlands, Poland, Portugal, Slovakia, Slovenia, Spain, Sweden and Switzerland.
Why is this important? These 26 countries have come to an agreement that you can travel freely between them, so you don't need extra visas or even border control to go from country to country. So it's super easy and cheap to bounce between them. What are the rules? You can only stay in the Schengen Zone for 90 days within a 180 day period. This just means that you can travel around freely for 3 months out of a 6 month window. The tricky part? The days don't reset just because you leave the Schengen. So if I travel around Europe for 3 months, go home for a month and then go back, I'm now traveling illegally.
I think a lot of times hostels get a bad rap as being grungy, cheap places that backpackers stay when their budget is small. I will admit, when I first heard friends talk about staying in a hostel a few years ago, I used to imagine army barracks full of people in a cramped, dirty room (clearly my imagination is a bit dramatic). During our first trip abroad, we decided to put these impressions to the test. Our experience wasn't amazing (we froze under a tiny blanket), but it was better than I had expected. Since we were traveling for a much longer period on this trip, and we were trying to be as economically efficient as possible (that's the nice way of saying we're cheap), we gave hostels another shot. After a month of traveling, we've stayed in four and plan on staying in more.
Here's the truth about what staying in a hostel is really like:
Unless you plan on dishing out a lot of money, you will probably stay in an 8, 10, or even 12 person room and will most likely share a bathroom. If you've ever lived in a college dorm or sorority house, it's pretty much the same (and you're really only using your room to sleep while traveling anyway right?).